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Learn to deal with people. Harmonious interpersonal relationships. The fundamental purpose of human life is to pursue happiness and joy. No matter how selfish you are, you cannot escape this ultimate goal. Harmoniously handling interpersonal relationships is the key to ensuring the realization of this goal. The famous "Grant Study" in human history, which lasted 78 years at Harvard University and cost more than 20 million US dollars, has confirmed that the real winners in life are those who have the ability to establish good interpersonal relationships. “Good relationships make people happier and healthier.” This also reminds us from another perspective that the degree to which people feel comfortable determines the height of their achievements in life.
The essence of the art of "selfishness" is actually that everyone is for me and I am for everyone. It is a sense of proportion that cares about oneself while not neglecting the existence of others. It is achieved through giving and taking, and balancing giving and taking. When a person's art of "selfishness" improves to a certain level, he can get a lot from others. The magical thing is that either people give willingly, like fans to their idols, or the person who gives does not feel that he has lost anything.
The art of "selfishness" lies in the "selfishness" of art.
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